Susan Boyle growing in confidence.

I loved seeing this video, I think it's so great to see Susan growing in confidence as she gets used to her new found fame !

May 25th 2009

Can Susan Boyle boost her confidence?

Susan Boyle on 'talent'

susan-boyle-portrait1Susan Boyle did a great performance on the semi finals of Britain's Got Talent last night. However, unlike her original performance where she had nothing to lose and was just 'giving it a go' fully expecting to be laughed at or jeered off stage, she now has the whole world watching and is the overwhelming favourite to WIN Britain's Got Talent and to claim the first prize of performing before the Queen at the Royal Variety Performance.

She did falter slightly at the very beginning of her performance and looked incredibly nervous and strained but soon got into her stride as she belted out the Andrew Lloyd Webber classic 'Memories' from the musical Cats to a standing ovation from the ecstatic crowd.

However, if she is to go on to perform internationally in front of larger and larger audiences, CONFIDENCE is the key to everything for Susan now.

She has the talent, the voice, the goofy personality that people like, but the confidence HAS to be there.

But there are ways she can boost her confidence, I'm a qualified NLP practitioner and I've seen so many times that it is SO easy and quick to boost your own self confidence and self worth. When was the last time, you felt so confident that you knew that people liked you, were interested in what you had to say, and that you were allowed to be 100% yourself? For most people the answer is seldom, or NEVER.

Many people experience the loneliness of feeling unworthy and helpless after years and years of being teased and made fun of just like Susan Boyle. Susan Boyle first to took to singing to give herself confidence during a difficult early life. She was briefly deprived of oxygen during her difficult birth and was diagnosed as having learning difficulties. She says she was bullied as a child and was nicknamed "Susie Simple" or "Susie Bong" at school, however, as the world now knows, she's the one having the last laugh as she metamorphasizes into a global superstar with the most you tube hits in history.

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What would life be like if... you had been raised with the best teachers, the most caring parents, and you were supported by friends who were a constant inspiration.

What kind of person would you be now if... you had attended the best schools, been applauded for your efforts, found your true calling and became an expert in your field because people believed in you.

How good would it feel if... you were allowed to be your true self, confident about your thoughts and ideas, and you knew you were loved and accepted by others.

When was the last time... you felt so confident that you knew that people liked you, were interested in what you had to say, and that you were allowed to be 100% yourself.

For most people the answer is seldom, or NEVER.

Maybe you were not raised by the most loving parents, and your grew up with no self worth.
Perhaps you know the loneliness of feeling unworthy and helpless after a childhood of being teased and put down.
Most likely you are one of the millions of children who suffered at the hands of bad teachers who punished you for being creative, expressive or outgoing.

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Six Ways To Boosting Self Esteem

So how do you keep calm, composed and maintain self worth in a very tough environment? This article has a few great tips to help you you keep assured in any situation.

Imagine yourself as a Dart Board. All the people around you, at some purpose, may become dart pins. These dart pins will discover several other paths to destroy your self confidence. You don't need to let here harm you.  Which though must you avoid?

Dart Pin #one : Negative Work Atmosphere
Many working environments are stuffed with negative people. This is where non-appreciative people frequently thrive. Your efforts will not be appreciated irrespective of how several hours you work. Often you are able get by at work while not having far to do with these types of people.  Avoid the negativity and drama because it often damages your self esteem.  Be healthy enough to compete but only in a healthy competition.

Dart Pin #2: Different People’s Behavior
Bulldozers, brown nosers, gossipmongers, whiners, backstabbers, snipers, individuals walking wounded, controllers, naggers, complainers, exploders, patronizers, sluffers… these people aren't awfully sensible for your self-worth and is going to be avoided.

Dart Pin #three: Changing Setting
You are able’t be a inexperienced bug on a brown field. Changes challenge our paradigms. It tests our flexibility, adaptability plus alters the way we have a tendency to think. Whilst change may be troublesome plus cause stress, it is sweet for you as it spurs imrpovement. Change is one of the few constants in life and so we have a tendency to need to be open to it.

Dart Pin #four: Past Experience
It’s okay to cry plus say “ouch!” when we have a tendency to expertise pain. Don't let the pain become fear. It might grab you by the tail plus swing you around. Treat your failures as learning lessons.

Dart Pin #five: Negative World View
Look at what you’re looking at. Don't get dragged along by the negativity of the people round you. In building self worth, we tend to need to learn the way to form the best out of unhealthy situations.

Dart Pin #six: Determination Theory
You are the product of your upbringing, your folks, your family, your friends, your setting plus more. You have got your own identity. If your father is a failure, it doesn’t mean you have to be a failure too. Learn from the experiences of the individuals round you therefore you are able avoid making the same mistakes.

Sometimes, you'll need to wonder if some people are born leaders or positive thinkers. NO. People create a option consciously on whether or not or not to be positive. Being a assured person is that a choice, not one thing you genetically inherit. God wouldn’t come down from heaven plus tell you – “George, you have permission now to be additional confident.”  

In life, its tough to keep assured particularly when things and people around you keep pulling you down. When we get to the battle field, we ought to choose the concession baggage to bring plus armors to use, and pick those which are bullet proof. Life presents us with several different options. Along the battle, we tend to will get hit plus bruised. Plus wearing a bullet proof armor ideally suggests that ‘self amendment’. The kind of modification that comes from within. Voluntarily. Armor or Self Amendment  changes three things: our angle, our behavior plus our way of thinking.

You can build additional self confidence because you improve yourself plus take responsibility for yourself, your actions plus your situation. It's like a flame which should gradually unfold favor a brush fireplace from inside plus out. You take management of your life as you work on increasing your self confidence.  Self-worth brings concerning self improvement, true assessment, and determination. Are there several paths in which you can start building your confidence right now? Be positive. Be contented plus happy. Be appreciative. Never miss an chance to compliment. A positive method of living can help you build self worth, your starter guide to self improvement.

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Susan Boyle Life Story

The 50-year-old singing sensation ' who shot to fame on Simon Cowell's talent search show 'Britain's Got Talent' in 2009 before going on to sell more than 14 million albums worldwide ' will see her inspirational tale take to the stage from 2012 in international stage production 'I Dreamed A Dream'.

Susan, who will be portrayed by 'Rab C. Nesbitt' actress Elaine C Smith, is thrilled at the prospect of seeing her life turned into a worldwide musical.

She said: "I am happy that the musical is being produced, I never thought my life story would end up on the stage but a lot has happened in two years and it is a very exciting prospect. I hope everyone enjoys the show and I promise there will be a few surprises along the way."

Meanwhile, producer Michael Harrison claimed the brand new musical will have all the qualities of a real-life "fairytale". He added: "She is an inspiring woman and her story is an excellent one to tell - someone with a raw talent who surprises the world and overturns all the odds to make a new life for herself. "It's got all the qualities of a fairytale, but with the added bonus of being absolutely true.

I am looking forward to the tour very much."

The Susan Boyle Sensation – Eddie Anderson on The Five Thirty Show

Raise self-esteem now – 10 valuable answers

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1. Why is self esteem important?

It is simply the underlying quality for ANYTHING in life in all areas (relational, financial, emotional, spiritual, mental, social). In order to overcome challenges or obstacles we need some level of self-esteem each and every time.

It's quite easy to see the real value of self-esteem in situations when we don't have it or we see others displaying it in the way we would like to have it.

2. Don't we already have self-esteem?

This is what we assume, but ask yourself this: Have you ever gotten taught about how to raise self-esteem?

Self-esteem is not taught in school, kindergarten or university. Usually this valuable lesson is taught to us by life - we just have to pay attention. Two out of three Americans have low self-esteem. This means that only one third actually feels competent enough to handle life. Just HANDLE life! What would be like if failure, rejection, criticism etc simply did not affect you. affect you in any possible way. And here lies the true value of self-esteem.

3. How can we raise self-esteem?

A great mistake that people make is to look on outside factors to improve their inner self-esteem. However the key is to look on the inside. By shifting our focus on the things that we like we gain self-esteem naturally. Don't get desperate chasing things you believe you want but in the end it make you unhappy. Whatever steals our energy or causes fear and worry or any kind of misery needs to be eliminated.

4. Is it learned or is it in the DNA?

Contrary to common belief having high self esteem can absolutely be learned. In fact, most success stories (e.g. Michal Jordan, Oprah Winfrey, Richard Branson) tell the story of a hero who struggled and then rose above him or herself. Good news is that self esteem and the ability to learn it does not depend on things like gender, heredity, IQ, nationality, social status, age or profession. Once this is learned it becomes part of your personality and of your DNA.

5. What are methods to raise self-esteem?

Let's look closely to where it self-esteem derives from. Our inside is what is important here: Imagination, Intuition, Emotions and Thoughts. There are five possible way is to take in and process information: These are our five senses -visual, auditory, kinaesthetic, olfactory and gustatory.

More about how to raise self-esteem in part two... Tthere is a video as well.

 

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How to improve your self-esteem

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Real instant self-esteem help

Maybe you know these situations?! There is something you wish to accomplish, something, that you wish to do - but when it comes to the decision, to really do it - you feel like you can't do it. You are not self secure enough. Just wishing you could boost your self-esteem right away. So that you feel the power to do all the things you want to do.

Just normally talk to that beautiful woman. Ask your boss for a raise. Be alive, be crazy and have the fun you really wanna have.

Boost your self-esteem right now - simply by applying this easy but yet powerful technique. To gain more confidence. To feel more self-secure.

When there is a challange in your life - or something that you are afraid to do, just start to remember, how many challenges you already mastered in your life. Remember those events, when you grew bigger than the challenge - when you really succeded. Put your whole focus on these events. Take a moment and remember: What did you see with your eyes when you suceeded in the past... remember the sounds you heard - maybe even the voices... what did people say to you?! Where there people that were proud of you!? I am certrain there were! :-) And what's about you? Were you proud of yourself?! How did feel to be so proud of yourself?! And go deep into that feeling... maybe even a bit deeper than before... What was it like to KNOW you did it?! Did you have a smile on your face?! How was it to feel the strength and the power witin you?! Did you feel how good it is, to be successful?! ;-) Just think of that special event and make a picture before your inner eye... and it doesn't matter which event you remember... just something where you really succeded. This maybe something you did yesterday or a month ago or even years ago. Just take that one event of success - or the other and feel all the feelings... just imagine you could see all these pictures... and hear all the sounds... you can feel how that good feeling is in your whole body - and in your whole mind right now...

And from that feeling of strength just think about, that you probably will also master this problem that you are facing now... I mean you did all that great stuff in the past - you can do it again!! And you know you can do it. Of course you can! :-)

We made a little video with the TOP 10 FAQ about How to raise self esteem. Be sure to watch it! :-)

Be happy!

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